Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Vietnam Makes Us Smile


On the main road coming into our village at An Bang Beach, there are two small bridges spanning the sleepy, quiet river tributaries. The first, near the Tra Que organic vegetable farms, is but a lane and a half wide, with a narrow walkway on either side. In the morning light, the images of fishing boats and bamboo fish enclosures, with small houses lining the shores, come alive.

One morning as we approached the bridge on our bicycles, we did so with great caution. A massive tour bus had parked right at the on-ramp, barely off the road. It had disgorged its passengers, who were dutifully lined up over the span of the bridge, backs to the road trying to capture that perfect photograph.  I could not help but giggle, as we pedaled by. I realized that they missed the best shot, on, not over, the bridge. A man came scooting by on his motorbike, arm slung to the rear, balancing a giant porcelain toilet. It tickles us still to see these feats of strength, agility, ingenuity and balance. If you want things moved in Hoi An, you do it by motorbike. Coffins, refrigerators, rebar, groceries, kids, tables, baskets, corrugated roofing, plastic Christmas trees, live kumquat trees, live pigs, dead ducks, vegetables, flowers, stereo speakers. Just when we think we have seen it all, a toilet whizzes by!






If you don’t have a motor bike, you get what you can onto a bicycle, including fishing poles, hoes and shovels, baskets of fruit and vegetables, fowl hanging from the handle bars or plastic piping sticking out both front and back. And if you don’t have a bicycle you use shoulder poles. Most often it is women carrying their burdens by shoulder pole. The load is often as much as fifty pounds. The gait, a rhythmic, bouncing trot, relieves the shoulders from the weight with every step. Our smiles are smiles of awe and admiration for these women, who like their mothers and grandmothers before them, head to market after rising at dawn to pick their produce, bundle their flowers, or make tau hu. Their labors begin before the sun rises and end as the sun goes down and the family dinner has been cooked and served. 





And then there are the moments, if we are open to them, so tranquil and beautiful, that they take our breath away. This morning, as we rode along through a small village into town, we did pause. A neighborhood shrine, which we have passed many times over the years, seemed to have had a facelift. We dismounted and much to our delight, the lotus pond had been cleaned up and blossoms, although out of season, stood amidst the pads. These sacred Buddhist symbols, lush and softly hued, were gentle reminders of the peace we all carry within. The temple too seemed to glow with renewed attention and care. Our smiles in these moments are blissful.







Sometimes the moment is simply being in a narrow lane in the midst of town, where a single old bicycle propped up against an ancient wall is the only thing that we see and for a few heartbeats we are alone and the cacophony of Old Town is suspended.





The best smiles are the ones we share when we have spied something quirky.




"We Born to Service You". The Vietnamese are indeed open, welcoming, helpful and unceasingly cheerful, but I am sure that they don't really mean this!!!

Thursday, March 3, 2016

I Live Here



"Toi song o day", I stammered in my incomprehensible Vietnamese. (doy sum oh'o dye...sort of). "I live here," I proclaimed to the market vendor. After 28 days I had finally found some clothes pins but although the sticker thereon said they were 5,000 dong, she was asking for 10,000. 

I pointed to the sticker and repeated "toi song o day," inferring that I should get the local price. 

"No, no, 10,000", she repeated. I tapped on the price tag. Still she gestured, 10,000. I flipped the clothespins back into the display basket and wandered off to get my 4 eggs, one mango and two banh my (small French baguettes).

Then I realized, my god, I had been dickering over a difference of 25 cents on the price of the clothes pins. She wanted 50 cents for the dozen and I was offering a quarter. Sheepishly I went back to the basket of pins and picked up the package. The sticker had been removed. The vendor and her pal across the aisle burst out laughing and so did I. How sweet of them to help me "save face". Sometimes, my Western self, embarrasses me.






Yes, 28 days in An Bang village by the beach and we still have not got the "green light" from all of the parking lot attendants along the strip leading to the beach bistros. Bicycles are prohibited along the beach, so our enterprising neighbours have built parking sheds beside the road. With gusto, cyclists are urged to "park here please", "free parking, buy one water". Every day on our way to breakfast or to set up shop in our bistro office we try, "toi song o day". About five of the women now smile and say "Chao boui sang" or "Good Morning"...the men however still flag us frantically, and even blow whistles to intimidate us and impress us with their official capacity as self-appointed traffic wardens.

Most of the 28 days have been grey, cloudy and very cool. Walks along the beach have been few and on a few nights,  I have crept into bed with all my clothes on....my Canada clothes...fleece and long pants. Sitting on the patio in the evening has been a time to wrap up.




Our presence in this village allows us to be part of all that transpires in the community; funerals, blessings of the fishing fleet and children's concerts. One evening we ventured down to the corner where the local kindergarten was having a celebration in the village square. All day, workmen laboured installing a temporary stage and huge sound system. When we arrived the music was already thunderous and the little mites from the nursery school were being ushered onto the stage. Decked out in their best interpretation of rock stars they hovered stage left until it was their turn to take stage centre. The girls seemed to have all the moves figured out, pushing the boys around. 

It was cute but also disconcerting. As the music pounded, these tiny people wiggled and gyrated, the girls coy, the boys "cool" and we wondered about the messages that they were being given. Teasing, taunting, flirtatious...at four years old!





We choose more sedate celebrations with the family. Sunday brunch at a hotel which serves a wide array of Western and Asian dishes. We wander through the line and pick as many delicacies as we want, eating too much, but enjoying a peaceful time together. Here we are last Sunday with Bruce's granddaughter Keryn.





Surely the best indicators that we live here are our bike rides on the lanes of our village with the grandsons Gao and Sesame.






"Trung Toi Song Oday"  We live here.